The Love Cheer

Monday, June 28, 2010

Compassion Fatigue


Author: Woodrow Kroll

Isaiah 42:3
A bruised reed He will not break, and smoking flax He will not quench; He will bring forth justice for truth.


An Irishman was down on his luck and was panhandling on Fifth Avenue before the annual St. Patrick's Day parade got underway in New York City. As a couple strolled by, he called out, "May the blessing of the Lord, which brings love and joy and wealth and a fine family, follow you all the days of your life." There was a pause as the couple passed his outstretched hand without contributing. Then he shouted after them, "And never catch up to you!"

Perhaps we can identify with that couple. Our mailboxes are stuffed with appeals from various organizations; our phones ring with individuals seeking pledges; some people even come right to our doors with solicitations. After a while, we can fall into an attitude that sociologists call "compassion fatigue." It simply means we turn our back even on worthy causes because we can't handle another request.

Fortunately, God never suffers from such an ailment. No matter how often we go to Him with our needs, He never turns us away. His compassion is always available. He treats us as one who is as tender as a bruised reed or as fragile as smoking flax.

Christians need to take care that we do not become fatigued in our compassion. The apostle Paul exhorts us, "And let us not grow weary while doing good, for in due season we shall reap if we do not lose heart. Therefore, as we have opportunity, let us do good to all, especially to those who are of the household of faith" (Gal. 6:9-10).

With limited time and funds, we must prayerfully ask the Lord what He would have us do when we are presented with an opportunity to give. Once we know His will, however, let nothing keep us from showing compassion.

Succumbing to compassion fatigue can squelch the work of God.

Duty makes us do things well; compassion makes us do them beautifully.

Sunday, June 27, 2010

Love Inspiration

Before we embark on this journey of love (starting July 1st), I would like to take a moment to give a shout-out to Jaeson Ma, because he inspired us to take on this love challenge and to live out love in real and practical ways, 3six5 days of the year.

I would not do justice using words to describe who Jaeson is, so instead, I will direct you to his blog: http://jaesonma.com/. He's currently on day 170 of his own 365 day love challenge, and I have to say, he has done some crazy and fun things in the name of love! As you read his blog, you may also want to check out his single, Love.


May you be inspired and encouraged to love others as well, persistently and self-lessly. And as you do so, may you be filled like you've never been filled before, because real love is not draining, but is something that renews the heart and soul.



Saturday, June 26, 2010

The Way of Love

"If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. If I give all I possess to the poor and surrender my body to the flames, but have not love, I gain nothing.

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails."

We believe in love. But we not only believe in it, we want to be committed to living it out, every year, 365 days of the year. Being human, we know that we will fail some days, but we will keep persevering, because we believe that love never fails!

Someone reminded me recently not to leave my heart in a box. To truly experience something, we need to bring our hearts with us. That means risk and vulnerability, but it also means genuineness and encouragement that the world so rarely sees today, but for which it so desperately longs for. May the power of love be released and manifested far and wide!



Monday, June 21, 2010

Counting down to July 1st.
Hello people of the world. We love you.